Friday, 8 June 2012

Does our life has a start ???

When i was about to join the school after i spent my first three years with my mom and dad, my dad told me "Son, the real life in outside world has started now , so be careful" !!!
When i completed my schools my brother told "Brother, now only your real life has started , so be careful" !!!
When i completed my graduation my teachers and my friends told " Dude,Your life has started now, so be careful and take every steps carefully " !!!

My question is ..Does really life starts at some point of time ?? if yes, When exactly life s getting started ?

Because my answer to this question is "Life never get starts and ends" . Life just happens. And if some people blindly say as life is starting at birth and ending at death , i will deny that even . Because if death has the ability to end a life then there is no meaning in we are enjoying the music of michael jackson and writings by kalki and speeches by vivekanandar even after they are not among us physically . So until their contributions and creations disappears, their life has no end.

At every single point of time we are facing the life's challenge with our own ability. When i was a kid i have been given food , home, money to spend from my parents . That doesn't mean that i was sheltered by my parents and my own life hasn't started at that time . Even as a kid i had to face all the people around me after my parent left me in that bigger school buildings . I had to get friends who could be always with me at that time . I had to study those big big numbers without even knowing what is that . I had to respect my elders when i didn't even know why i am doing that. I had to have goals like getting chocolates from my teacher by doing something smart among all in classrooms. 

When i graduated from my school and entering college i had to do things to match me with that damn big groups of people . I had to face situations where i need to sacrifice my dreams for my friends . I had to cross all the people around me who were  selfish , jealousy , lovable. I had to know to select peoples who really cared for me. I had to cry for people who i really cared for. Disappoinment , love , care ,true , lie , cruel , selfish ..... i crossed everything and not once !! every time , when i had moved with different peoples... There is no start or end to our life. We have been always sorrounded by all these things which i mentioned above.

So if anyone telling you that your life has started, dont get frightened. Bcoz life never has a start or end. Just live everyday. Just keep the good memories with you always , never care for the bad memories . Dont feel sad for anything as u lost something or as it reached the end which u might thought it ll never has an end. If u believe in god,just  pray god not for happiness , pray for everything. Life has many pages , dont just stay in a single page and get satisfied. Or atleast be ready to face the other exciting, shocking, unbelievable, unexpected pages of life. If you blindly follow a successful person's path then you may miss your own wonderful , beautiful  path which life might lead you. Just keep the hand of LIFE :) !! It will lead you to somewhere where you have to go . Enjoy it without expectations :)